# FIGHT OR FLIGHT

- Link: https://food4jws.kingdomherald.com/fight-or-flight/
- Published: 2026-09-14T00:00:00+00:00
- Author: RR

**WHAT WOULD JESUS DO?**

If you’re one of Jehovah’s Witnesses considering stepping away from the Watchtower,
you might find solace in Jesus’ words from Matthew 23:38: “Your house is abandoned
to you.” Instead of trying to reform the temple system or seeking validation from
its leaders, Jesus chose to focus on serving God directly. This view can help you
move forward without engaging in disputes or feeling compelled to defend your beliefs
within a system that feels misaligned with what you believe God desires.

**Jesus walked away from a broken system.**

The temple leaders believed they were the sole representatives of God, but Jesus
saw through their missteps. Similarly, a Witness may come to understand that the
Governing Body’s authority isn’t truly supported by the Bible. By reflecting on 
how Jesus approached these challenges, you can steer clear of conflicts with elders
that might lead to serious issues like judicial committees, accusations of apostasy,
and emotional or social exhaustion.

This means they stop seeking approval from leaders and don’t feel the need to justify
their departure. This allows them to break free from a system that seems disconnected
from God.

I chose a different path. When I realized that the people I was following didn’t
truly reflect God or Christ, I took a step back. I let go of my responsibilities
and felt a huge weight lift off my shoulders. When the elders reached out, I explained
that I needed some space and would reach out when I was ready. I even moved 50 miles
away to start anew.

Jesus often avoided arguments and didn’t feel the need to persuade others. He simply
walked away from conflicts. Even during intense discussions with religious leaders,
he didn’t seek out these debates; they approached him with challenging questions
instead.

For someone in this situation, handling things this way can help prevent arguments
with elders, keep them off judicial committees, and avoid being labeled as apostate.
It also helps maintain their calm and reduces emotional stress, much like Jesus 
did.

**After leaving the temple, Jesus continued to teach and heal, undeterred by any
opposition. For someone choosing to leave the Witness community, it often represents
a fresh start with God. They can enjoy freedom from rigid rules and study the Bible
without worrying about others’ opinions—just like Jesus did.**

Jesus’ departure highlighted a crucial truth about the system he was part of. When
he declared, “Your house is abandoned to you,” he emphasized that the temple’s authority
came from people, not God. Many who leave the Witness community share this realization.

They start to understand that the Governing Body’s authority depends more on loyalty
than on true biblical teachings. Once they step back, that false sense of control
diminishes, and by following Jesus, they begin to see the organization more clearly,
free from fear and guilt.

Jesus didn’t cling to anger or resentment upon leaving. Rather than engaging in 
arguments or holding grudges, he focused on spreading the truth and moving forward.
For someone contemplating leaving the Witness community, this approach is healthier
than getting into debates with elders or family, which can keep them stuck in a 
difficult situation.

By emulating Jesus’ commitment to peace, a Jehovah’s Witness considering leaving
the Watchtower can find comfort in his message: “Your house is abandoned to you.”
This view allows them to exit respectfully and empowers them to pursue a closer,
more personal relationship with God, free from the organization’s pressures.

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Leaving can be a significant decision. Jesus walked away from a corrupt temple system
that claimed exclusivity in connecting with God. He recognized the dishonesty of
the leaders and left without seeking permission.

A Jehovah’s Witness might choose to distance themselves from the Governing Body,
which insists it alone interprets God’s will. When they explore the scriptures independently,
they may discover that those claims aren’t accurate and realize that no group should
stand between them and God.

The choice to leave pivots on spiritual beliefs. Jesus recognized that the temple
leaders were more invested in their power than in truth, indicating that God wasn’t
genuinely present.

A Jehovah’s Witness may come to see that the group’s teachings, such as the “slave”
doctrine, have evolved over time and diverge from Christ’s messages. Ultimately,
both choose to leave because they believe the organization no longer represents 
God’s true purpose in their lives.

How they choose to leave is important as well. Jesus departed with dignity, opting
not to argue or attempt to change things; he simply walked away. In contrast, a 
Jehovah’s Witness might prefer to leave quietly to avoid conflict, as arguments 
can create unnecessary drama. Both choices underscore the value of respect and peace
in parting ways.

After their departures, both Jesus and a Jehovah’s Witness discover new ways to 
express their faith. Jesus continued to serve God outside the temple, and his ministry
thrived. In the same way, a Jehovah’s Witness can flourish spiritually outside the
organization’s confines, engaging with the Bible independently and cultivating a
personal connection with God. In both instances, leaving opens the door to greater
spiritual freedom and fulfillment.

Jesus’ exit exposed flaws within the system and revealed the leaders’ insecurities.
When someone chooses to leave the Jehovah’s Witnesses, it often illuminates how 
fragile the Governing Body’s control truly is. The organization often responds defensively
to independent thought, and both sides typically react strongly when their authority
is challenged. Jesus’ departure was more than a mere statement; it symbolized a 
shift toward a personal relationship with God. For many Jehovah’s Witnesses, leaving
the Watchtower signifies a transition from loyalty to an organization to nurturing
their own faith. Those who have left often view their decision not as abandoning
God, but as a genuine effort to follow Christ’s teachings.

Granted, there are those who leave and want NOTHING to do with organized religion,
many becoming agnostic or atheist, and that’s their choice. You can stay, you can
leave, you can reject God or you can cultivate a personal relationship with Him,
the choice is yours.

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